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Threes

Supposedly, people tend to only take away three ideas from talks. For some reason I’ve noticed some groups of three ideas that are useful and interlocking. Here’re four groups of three things.

Good, true, or helpful. If what you’re about to say or email to someone doesn’t meet two out of those three criteria, reword it or don’t say it at all.

When you’re communicating try to remember ABC, which stands for accurate, brief, and clear.

By taking these 3 steps  you’ll go a long way in helping your exposed skin as you age: in the morning apply vitamin C serum and sunscreen, later before bed apply a low strength retinol.

There are lots of smart, interesting normal people out there, and from them you learn that the best thing in life is following the straight and narrow, observing social conventions, and working a steady job.

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Snap out of it

People’s worries are endless. “My mother didn’t love me.” “I try to do too much.” “My husband isn’t attracted to me.”  “I’m a success but I’m still alone.” “I can’t leave my house.” “So and so at work avoids me.”

Jerry Seinfeld and a comedian pal were riffing about what happens during most psychotherapy sessions. They speculated on the best  advice the therapist could offer, concluding the best response a therapist should usually give at the end of a session was, “Snap out of it!”

Andy Warhol supposedly said that sometimes people let the same problem make them miserable for years when they could just say, “So what?”

The vast majority of most lives will be boring and not noteworthy. It’s normal and it’s okay. So “Snap out of it.” might be good advice. Or maybe try similar ideas like: move on, so what, or just drop it.

Marcus Aurelius said that you have power over your mind but not external events. If you can abide by that,  you’ll be able to go through life less perturbed.

Not everyone has the privilege of saying “Snap out of it, move on, or so what?” in every situation, but changing your perception about things you have little control over is a powerful tool.

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Looking forward with Bucky

There’s more talk lately about creating some sort of guaranteed basic income once, or before, AI and more automation come online. Basically everyone gets the same monthly amount. It’ll be enough to live on and up to you to pursue more money or other interests.

It sounds radical to most people, but some form of it will probably happen. But it’s not a new concept. A little ahead of his time, in a 1970 issue of New York magazine article Buckminster Fuller said this about the massive economic lever of technology:

We must do away with the absolutely specious notion that everybody has to earn a living. It’s a fact today that one in ten thousand of us can make a technological breakthrough capable of supporting all the rest. The youth of today are absolutely right in recognizing this nonsense of earning a living. We keep inventing jobs because of this false idea that everybody has to be employed at some kind of drudgery because, according to Malthusian-Darwinian theory, he must justify his right to exist.

So we have inspectors of inspectors and people making instruments for inspectors to inspect inspectors. The true business of people should be to go back to school and think about whatever it was they were thinking about before somebody came along and told them they had to earn a living.

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The changing American psyche

It doesn’t seem like Trump is “making America Great Again.” More and more he seems to be encouraging and fostering an America that promotes the sentiments of this quote I saw somewhere, “African-Americans know what it feels like to be ignored by those in power. Thanks to Trump, the rest of America is getting a taste of that now.”

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Bugs

Here’re some interesting facts about roaches and termites I ran across.

About the length of a AA battery, the American cockroach is the largest common house cockroach.

It eats just about anything, including feces,  book binding glue, and other cockroaches, dead or alive.

It can live for a week without its head.

It has extraordinary healing capabilities, cut a leg off, and it’ll quickly regenerate a new one.

It can fly short distances and run as fast as the human equivalent of 210 miles per hour, relative to its size.

It’s genome is larger than ours.

And finally, termites evolved to cooperate through a sophisticated division of labor long before other insects like ants and bees did.

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Extraterrestrials

Apparently, men and people with lower levels of income are more likely to believe in extraterrestrials.

Another strong predictor for believers is an extreme distrust of the government. Are Tea Party members and Trump fans also supporters of the idea that there’re extraterrestrials?

If they have visited, you’d think they would’ve figured out that visiting Stephen Hawking would be more productive than Billy Graham.

Humans probably wouldn’t survive an alien invasion. If alien lifeforms can get here, it’s clear who’ll have the upper hand. If we find them, maybe they’ll still be at the algae stage of their evolution or even simpler.

The universe is 13 billion years old, so there could’ve been plenty of civilizations that evolved and went extinct. Maybe we haven’t found extraterrestrials because they’re all dead.

Or as someone realized, there might be many extraterrestrial beings out there, or we might be the sole life form in the entire universe and either option is scary.

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Cryptocurrency fever

Lately, people are getting caught up by the lure of big scores from cryptocurrencies.

I kinda have a broad brush understanding of them and that’s what most other people have too. Cryptocurrency has been described  as “everything you don’t understand about money combined with everything you don’t understand about computers.”

Unfortunately, most people don’t think about risks realistically.

For example, most people worry too much about the risk of dying from a wild animal encounter. They don’t really factor in the risk from animals we more commonly come into contact with.

The title of a NYT article framed the problem this way, “Afraid of Snakes? Wasps and Dogs Are Deadlier.”

The article reports most deaths aren’t from encounters with wild animals.

Dogs, cattle and horses are much more dangerous.

The wild animals presenting the greatest danger are bees, wasps and hornets!

Cryptocurrencies have a risk most people don’t understand. But they sound very seductive when you hear about their growth

Don’t be surprised if you lose money after investing in something you don’t really understand and that you don’t think is as risky as it is.

Risking what you have (and need) for the chance of getting what you don’t need is a bad idea.

 

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#600

This is my 600th post!

Recently Seth Godin hit his 7,000th post. He claims, “The secret to writing a daily blog is to write every day. And to queue it up and blog it. There’s no other secret. Over time, the blog adds up.”

For years I posted at least twice a week. Over the past year or so my output dropped a bit. But little by little it does add up.

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Letting convenience decide

There’s a NYT article called “The Tyranny of Convenience” by Tim Wu which I’ve conveniently shortened here.

Convenience seems to decide for us, overriding  what we imagine are our true preferences. It’s like saying, “I prefer brewing my coffee, but Starbucks instant coffee is so convenient that I hardly ever do what I prefer.”

Americans say they prize competition, lots of choices, and the little guy. Yet our taste for convenience begets more convenience. Through a combination of the economics of scale and the power of habit, the easier it is to use Amazon, the more powerful Amazon becomes – and thus the easier it becomes to use Amazon.

Making things easier isn’t wicked and it makes our lives less arduous. But given the growth of convenience as a way of life, it’s worth asking what it’s doing to us and to our country.

Created to free us, convenience can become a constraint by erasing the sort of struggles and challenges that help give meaning to life. When we let convenience decide everything, we surrender too much.

The dream of convenience is premised on the nightmare of physical work. But is physical work always a nightmare? Do we really want to be emancipated from all of it?

The invention of “convenience foods,”  the electric clothes-washing machines, cleaning products, and other marvels including the electric vacuum cleaner, instant cake mix and the microwave oven could be considered convenience milestones.

Sometimes our humanity is expressed in inconvenient actions and time-consuming pursuits. Maybe that’s why there’ve always been those who resist it, resisting out of stubbornness, yes (and because they have the luxury to do so), but also because they see a threat to their sense of who they are, to their feeling of control over things that matter to them.

By the late 1960s, convenience meant conformity. The counterculture was about people’s need to express themselves and to live with nature rather than constantly seeking to overcome its nuisances. Playing the guitar was not convenient. Neither was growing one’s own vegetables. But such things were seen to have value.

Now in the second wave of convenience technologies, convenience is about personal preference with no effort. When you can skip the line and buy concert tickets on your phone, waiting in line to vote in an election seems irritating. Convenient has even trumped free – the iTunes store made buying music even more convenient than illegally downloading it.

We can’t deny making things easier can serve us in important ways, giving us many choices (of restaurants, taxi services, open-source encyclopedias) where we used to have only a few or none. But being a person is only partly about having and exercising choices. It’s also about how we face up to situations thrust upon us, about overcoming worthy challenges and finishing difficult tasks, the struggles that help make us who we are.

What happens to human experience when so many obstacles, requirements, and preparations have been removed?

Convenience is all destination and no journey. Not always, but we need to  embrace the inconvenient more. Because struggle isn’t always a problem. Sometimes struggle is a solution. It can be the solution to the question of who you are.

Embracing inconvenience may sound odd, but we already do it without thinking of it as that. We call them hobbies, avocations, callings, passions. These are the activities that help to define us. They reward us with character because they involve an encounter with meaningful resistance — with nature’s laws, with the limits of our own bodies — as in carving wood, melding raw ingredients, fixing a broken appliance, writing code, timing waves or a runner pushing through pain. Such activities take time.

We shouldn’t forget the joy of doing something slow and something difficult, the satisfaction of not doing what is easiest. The constellation of inconvenient choices may be all that stands between us and a life of total, efficient conformity.

For all its influence as a shaper of individual decisions, the greater power of convenience may arise from decisions made in aggregate, where it is doing so much to structure the modern economy.

Convenience is the most underestimated and least understood force in the world today. In the developed nations of the 21st century, convenience — that is, more efficient and easier ways of doing personal tasks — has emerged as perhaps the most powerful force shaping our individual lives and our economies. This is particularly true in America, where, despite all the paeans to freedom and individuality, one sometimes wonders whether convenience is in fact the supreme value.

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Before committing

Lots of things are easier to get into than to get out of, like marriage or buying a new car. So drilling down into the potential ramifications is a good idea.  Here’s a good trick from from a contributor on Kevin Kelly’s CoolTools site.

I’ve gotten in the habit of searching for “Things I wish I knew before I started X.” It can help you prepare for your next endeavor and avoid common pitfalls. I did this recently with “Things I wish I knew before I got pregnant,” and I’m so glad I did, because it eased a lot of my fears and makes me appreciate this in-between time.