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The taboo of enlightenment

I’m not sure what enlightenment really means. But it does seem fascinating.

Some people have probably attained it. But most people don’t really talk about it directly because they think it’s taboo. But why is that?

A guy in this 2004 article  who says he’s enlightened does talk about it directly and has some interesting takes on it based on his direct experience.

I do find it a little weird that an American named Steve Gray decided to change his name to Adyashanti. He says he had an awakening at 31 and  decided to teach about it.

I think changing your name to Adyshanti would only add to the unusualness of an unusual subject that he wants to normalize. It’s a minor point though and he’s decidedly not woo woo. I just extracted the parts of the article I found interesting. Go ahead Steve.

When I looked around at the Buddhist tradition, I realized that the success rate was terrible. People were in it for enlightenment, but very few were actually getting enlightened. If this were a business, I thought, we’d be bankrupt.

I didn’t reject anything. I just stopped blindly adhering to the traditional approach, and the energy bound up in following the traditional approach transferred to looking deeply into what’s really true.

Enlightenment is awakening from the dream of being a separate me to being the universal reality. It’s not an experience or a perception that occurs to a separate person as the result of spiritual practice or cultivated awareness. It doesn’t come and go, and you don’t need to do anything to maintain it. It’s not about being centered or blissful or peaceful or any other experience. In fact, enlightenment is a permanent nonexperience that happens to nobody. The separate person is seen through, and you realize that only the supreme, universal reality exists, and that you are that.

The tradition of talking about certain experiences only in private with your teacher keeps enlightenment a secret activity reserved for special people.

We sit around casually and talk about it. What’s happening on the inside for people isn’t kept secret or hidden. This way, people get beyond the sense that they’re the only ones who are having this or that experience. They come out of their shell, which actually makes them more available to a deeper spiritual process. When everything remains open to inquiry, then even the ego’s tendency to claim enlightenment for itself becomes obvious in the penetrating light of public discourse.

In the long run, both ways have their strengths and weaknesses. I’ve found that having students ask their questions in public breaks down the isolation many spiritual people feel—the sense that nobody else could possibly understand what they’re going through, or that they’re so rotten at their practice, or that nobody could be struggling like they are.

When people have breakthroughs and talk about them in public, awakening loses its mystique. Everyone else can see that it’s not just special people who have deep awakenings, it’s their neighbor or their best friend.

The very notion that anybody attains enlightenment is a taboo. We’re all going after this, but God forbid somebody says they’ve realized it.

People are chasing an awakening they don’t believe could happen to them. That’s a barrier, and the biggest one. People want liberation, but they are also terrified of it.

I didn’t leave Buddhism. I just woke up out of the identity of being a Buddhist, as anyone who wakes up will. I’m not teaching to transmit a tradition or carry on a lineage; I’m teaching to awaken whoever may be interested in awakening.

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Smiling scientists

One of my nephews is working on his PhD in physics. So the following info may be useful to him besides just being interesting on its own.

Theory and research indicates that people with more positive emotions are better at attaining goals at work and in everyday life.

Does the expression of genuine positive emotions by scientists positively correlate with work-related accomplishments? Those accomplishments are the number of citations of their papers and the number of followers for their scholarly updates.

Using publicly available photographs of 440 scientists from a social networking site for researchers, multiple raters coded the smile intensities in the photos (full smile, partial smile, or no smile). The scientists with full smiles had the same quantity of publications but they had more citations per paper. The authors with full smiles attracted more followers to their updates compared to less positive emotionally expressive peers.

The results remained after controlling for age and sex. So no matter how serious you feel on the inside, if you want your work more widely distributed you should smile broadly in photos.

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Cautiously Optimistic

There’s lots of seemingly bad news every day.

But there’s always been bad news.

And now with more bandwidth available, I think we’re just taking taking in more info. Then combine that wit the human bias toward the negative that comes baked in to help with survival during our millennia spent in the wild as hunter gatherers.

The world’s population will begin trending downward sometime in the next decades.

Most people are unaware of the positive changes in our world. Read Hans Roling’s book “Factfulness” and you’ll see that even the folks who should know about positive trends don’t know about them. You’ll be surprised.

Educating women leads to women having less children.

Cities are more efficient than country living and so are effectively “greener.”

Most poverty reduction comes from economic growth and migration rather than  redistribution or philanthropy.

Think about this rapid change. In 1949, 75% of Chinese women were illiterate. But today China has one of the lowest rates of female illiteracy in the world — as well as the highest percentage of self-made female billionaires.

There’re lots of positive things happening, but they’re generally overshadowed by the negative news we constantly get.

 

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Did humans self-domesticate?

Recent archaeological evidence suggests that humans became increasingly docile and less reactively aggressive around the time of becoming Homo sapiens, a process that started about 300,000 years ago.

There are certain changes that appear in human fossils that also appear in domesticated animals.

There’re four bone characteristics of domesticated animals. They tend to have smaller bodies than their wild ancestors. Their faces tend to be shorter. Differences between males and females are less. And they tend to have smaller brain cavities (and brains). Our brain size increased steadily over the last two million years, until about 30,000 years ago, when our brains started becoming smaller.

As language became sufficiently sophisticated, our ancestors’ increased communication ability led not only to a more peaceful species but also to new kinds of hierarchy. The physical force of an individual was no longer the prerequisite for ruling human groups. Once capital punishment came along, then anyone aspiring to control the group by force couldn’t get away with just being a killer. He had to be a politician, too.

The result of such selective pressure over generations means that maybe human beings are an animal species that’s been domesticated — like dogs, horses or chickens.

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Stop going to the circus

When is time to stop going to the circus?

If you started seeing reports about a large number of clowns molesting young children at  circuses, would you continue going to the circus? Probably not, especially if you have kids.

Why should the Catholic church get a pass (over and over) for priests who are child rapists? What about the continued cover ups and the slap-on-the-wrist punishments for the offenders ?

Revelations in the Catholic church’s decades-long child-rape and sex abuse scandals revealed “a repulsive institution — or at least one permeated by repulsive human beings who reward one another for repulsive acts, all the while deigning to lecture the world about its sin.” That was situation described by a Catholic as the straw that broke the camel’s back, compelling him to finally leave the church. 

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2019 update of “so far”

When you’re used to a website, noticing changes on it can be tough.

So here’s a heads up. I’ve just updated the “so far” page for this blog. “So far” is where I’ve compiled some of the best ideas from more than 600 blog posts.